We have a 100 watt flexible panel. If we were to do it again today, we'd go with a 150 watt flexible panel, mainly for the depths of winter. Since ours is mounted on our van's roof, at midday on the first day of Winter in Central Florida with clear skies we might only generate about one amp. Being able to position the panel for a better sun angle would improve that, but then again we are getting solar power any time there is sunlight- we don't need to wait until the panel is deployed, and then have to reposition it, another hour or two later.
We were driving in clear skies, and the CTEK is designed to charge from solar and alternator at the same time (another big plus over our old system). So part of that 14v reading could have been due to the solar. We drove another two hours today in cloudier skies, to Salmon, ID. When we stopped, the camper battery read 13.7v (for quite a while now we have been in the habit of putting the Dometic in our van when driving - less load on the battery, so more power to get through the night when we move it back to the camper). Around 5:30, in full sun and after having had the Dometic in the camper for at least two hours, at one point we were reading 14.25v (the Dometic was ALSO in full sun). Now (at 7:30), with a low sun angle, we are consistently getting 13.4v. Still way better than we would be seeing on shore power.
The generator is a good question. We've had ours for nearly four years now. We thought one benefit of the generator would be that we could fire it up, run the Dometic on 110v and be able to charge the battery at the same time (oh yeah, and also watch some TV to cover the generator noise). I asked Cary about using the generator to keep up with the use of the Dometic. He said that you'd probably need to run the generator all day long. I believe the reason is that the onboard charger only puts out about 1.25 amp hours - it doesn't have the high amp charging of your alternator. I'm pretty sure the television on battery power probably draws as much as the battery charger was replacing.
So what good is the generator? Running the AC on scorching hot days. And powering the electric mattress pad and ceramic heater on cold nights/mornings. Beyond that, it is heavy, wastes a lot of space and, while it is quiet when you are in the campsite next door (at least in most public campgrounds, with decent sized campsites), it is noisy when it is in YOUR campsite. But we've seen creative people who have made some very nice noise dampening covers for theirs. But they are still heavy and bulky. Think twice about getting one. Some folks will have sufficient space for them, and sufficient need. Others will live in places where power goes out from time-to-time, and it can be good peace of mind to know you have the means to keep your house refrigerator going until the power comes back on. A lot of folks will just overthink things and buy a generator with very limited applicability for their needs. Simpler is better. For us, it would probably take a coin toss to decide if we would go that route again. The cost, space, weight and noise of the thing are big considerations, and the importance of each of those will vary from person to person.
So as far as generators go, if you have decent solar and just want one for the limited uses that we have, I MIGHT buy one, and if I did, it would probably be one from Harbor Freight for half the price (or less) of a Yamaha or Honda. At the same time, if you have good cell coverage and can keep up to date with the weather, a motel room might be a better investment, especially in a rural area where prices are still reasonable.