Pat,
Brilliant move with the alphabet paper! Being with the boys in the hospital is a moving experience. I was there, too.
My older sister was a candy-striper and I tagged along as an unofficial duena. Now Rae was 17...so that would make me...13, yeah. We volunteered at the Oak Knoll Naval Hospital in Oakland, California that summer of 1967. I was too young to do the candy stripe thing and far too young to be on the boy's "hit list", so I became their official mascot and baby sister at large. I would read letters and books to the guys who lost their vision, referee all the wheel chair races and poker games and help return the lost guys from the 7th floor (Shell-shock ward. They hadn't coined the phrase "delayed stress syndrome" yet.) Rae said it helped the boys to have a little sister around...I hope so.
I don't know if my presence did anything more than curb their swearing, but I do know being there had a huge impact on me. The war in Vietnam is the one constant thread running throughout my entire childhood and teen years. I saw it every night on the evening news, I felt it when my older brother got his draft notice and sent mother into a panic, I smelt and tasted it with the returned wounded in the hospital and finally I was myself wounded by it when school friends and neighbor's sons went off to war....and never returned. Heck, I even tried to join the Navy when I was 18, but I caught the recruiter in a lie and never signed the final paper.
I have to admit another reason for not enlisting...when I told my parents I was about to join, mother nearly fainted and dad almost had a heart attack. It was 1972 and the war was in a particularly nasty phase. I couldn't do that to my folks; they were so scared. Yet I still regret.... Maybe that's why I ended up with a carrier in Law Enforcement. Service, somehow.
My, that is a bit off the beaten track. Maybe I'm saying I have a bit of an idea what it is to enlist and serve. Just the faint taste I've had makes me appreciate all you true service men and women all the more. So once more I say: Thank You For Your Service.
Sue