I replied to Ron privately but thought I should also post here for those who search the forums in the future.
I have a 2013 Outback and I did the wiring myself. I watched the video on Etrailer a lot and referenced the instructions that came with our parts.
I decided on this controller
http://www.etrailer.com/Brake-Controller/Tekonsha/TK90160.html
and this wiring harness
http://www.etrailer.com/p-ETBC7.html
There were a few other parts I needed to complete the job which they mention in their installation video, dielectric grease, red wire, some extra loom material, electrical tape, some loom clamps, and the long bracket
http://www.etrailer.com/p-18136.html
Drilling the hole for the ground was difficult but my husband was able to get it done. We could not drill the holes for the loom clamps into the frame under the vehicle to hold the wiring up. We just didn't have a powerful enough drill. I paid a dude at UHaul $5 to do it for me on the side.
I ended up mounting the brake controller onto the door to the fuse box to the left of the steering wheel. It was easier to do it this way, just take the door off and screw in the mounting hardware. The controller is not in our way at all.
It took me a whole day to do it but I took my time, it looks nice and tidy, and I saved some cash doing it myself.
Mechele